Volcanic Glass
Apache Tears are a form of natural volcanic glass, sharing a family with obsidian but forming as smaller rounded nodules rather than large slabs.
Volcanic glassObsidian variety
Crystal Meaning
Apache Tears Crystal Meaning & Properties
Obsidian nodules for gentle grief support, emotional release and grounded protection.
Apache Tears are small nodules of dark obsidian often chosen for gentle grief support, emotional release and grounded, protective presence.
5.5
Mohs Scale
Root,
Heart
Energy Centers
Earth,
Fire
Nature Forces
Cancer,
Scorpio
Star Signs
A Brief Introduction
Obsidian Variety
Apache Tears are small nodules of volcanic glass related to obsidian, usually deep brown to black but translucent at the edges. They are often chosen as pocket companions for people moving through grief, change or emotional release, offering a sense of grounded comfort and steady protection.
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Origin & History
Where Apache Tears comes from and how people have worked with it over time.
Apache Tears form when volcanic lava cools quickly into natural glass and breaks into rounded nodules that weather out of the host rock. Many pieces on the market come from the southwestern United States and Mexico, where ancient volcanic fields left behind pockets of obsidian nodules. In modern crystal stories, Apache Tears are associated with gentle grief support and emotional processing, inspired by legends that speak of tears turned to stone. People often keep them as quiet, soothing companions during periods of loss, transition or healing.
Nodular Habit
Weathering and erosion gradually free the nodules from surrounding rock, leaving smooth, rounded stones that are comfortable to hold.
Rounded nodulesTumbled feel
Modern Use
Today they are used as pocket stones, comfort pieces or altar stones during times of grief, change or emotional healing.
Grief supportComfort stone
Major Deposits Worldwide
Key regions where high-quality Apache Tears is found.
USUnited States (Southwest)45%MXMexico25%OTHEROther volcanic glass fields30%
Physical Properties
A quick look at how Apache Tears behaves as a mineral.
Color Range
Deep brown to black, translucent at thin edges
Hardness
5.5
Mohs scale (approx. 5 to 5.5)
Family
Natural volcanic glass (obsidian variety)
Formation
Rapidly cooled lava that later weathers into rounded nodules
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Hardness: 5.5 on the Mohs scale
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Luster: Vitreous
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Transparency: Translucent to opaque (edges often glow brown in strong light)
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Treatment: Natural, tumbled or lightly polished to smooth surfaces for comfort
Chakras & Zodiac Correspondences
Energetic alignments and astrological connections for Apache Tears.
Root Chakra
root
Supports feeling safe in your body and everyday life, with a sense of basic stability.
Base of spine & legsRed
Heart Chakra
heart
Linked to giving and receiving love, emotional healing and gentle, open-hearted energy.
Center of chestGreen / Pink
Many people keep Apache Tears near the base of the spine or over the heart area during meditation or rest, symbolising grounded safety and compassionate emotional release.
Zodiac Signs
Cancer
Jun 21 – Jul 22
Soft, protective energy that values emotional safety, family and cosy spaces.
Scorpio
Oct 23 – Nov 21
All-or-nothing energy that moves through layers, secrets and emotional truth.
Apache Tears Healing Properties
Symbolic support for grief, emotional release and grounded protection.
Emotional & Mental
Holding space for grief and sadness without rushing
94%
Offering comfort during tender or lonely moments
92%
Encouraging tears and feelings to move more freely
90%
Helping soften guilt or self-blame around loss
88%
Supporting courage to ask for help when needed
86%
Reminding you that healing can be slow and non-linear
84%
Spiritual & Energy
Creating a soft, grounded protective field
94%
Helping release heavy emotional residue over time
92%
Supporting gentle cord-cutting from old stories
90%
Encouraging trust in your own inner timing
88%
Holding space for quiet rituals of remembrance
86%
Linking earthly grounding with heart-centered compassion
84%
Physical Associations (Symbolic)
Taking gentle walks or movement to process feelings
84%
Creating cosy rest spaces that feel emotionally safe
82%
Building small daily rituals of comfort and care
80%
Honouring the need for extra rest during heavy seasons
78%
Letting go of the expectation to "bounce back" quickly
76%
Symbolic ally when supporting others through loss
74%
Crystal work is a supportive ritual and symbolic practice, not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care. Always seek qualified support for any physical or emotional health concerns.
How to Use Apache Tears in Everyday Life
Weave gentle comfort and grounded protection into daily routines.
Pocket & Personal Use
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Pocket comfort stone
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Bedside companion
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Gentle jewelry
Home & Sacred Spaces
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Grief altar
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Comfort corner
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Desk support
Simple Rituals
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Evening release
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Memory honouring
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Support check-in
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Pro Tips
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Let healing move at its own pace
Treat Apache Tears as a reminder that grief and big feelings move in waves; you do not have to be "over it" on a schedule.
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Pair with supportive practices
Combine work with the stone alongside journaling, therapy, community or rituals that actually help you feel held.
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Notice small increments
Use the stone to celebrate tiny signs of softening, like easier breathing or more honest conversations, rather than only big changes.
How to Cleanse & Care for Apache Tears
Keep this obsidian variety smooth, grounded and ready to support you.
Physical Care
Do's
Wipe gently with a soft cloth to remove fingerprints or dust
Store separately or in pouches to minimise scratches
Remove jewelry pieces before heavy manual tasks
Don'ts
Avoid hard knocks, drops and sharp blows
Do not use abrasive cleaners or rough cloths
Keep away from strong chemicals and bleach
Storage
Store in small bowls, cloth bags or jewelry boxes
Avoid tossing stones loosely into bags with keys or coins
Keep out of prolonged, harsh sunlight that may heat stones excessively
Energetic Cleansing Methods
Water
Quick rinse
Apache Tears are generally fine with a brief rinse under lukewarm water, followed by gentle drying with a soft cloth.
Avoid long soaks or very hot water; dry thoroughly after any quick cleansing.
Smoke
2-3 min
Waft incense or herbal smoke around the stone to symbolically clear heavy energy from recent days.
Use light passes so residue does not build up on the surface.
Sound
5-10 min
Use singing bowls, chimes or soft music to refresh the atmosphere around your stones without physical contact.
Very safe, with no contact or moisture involved.
Moonlight
Overnight
Place Apache Tears on a windowsill for gentle overnight moonlight, especially during times when emotions feel heavy.
Bring them in before strong morning sun to avoid heating the stones too much.
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Glass-Like Surface: As a volcanic glass, Apache Tears can scratch or chip if handled roughly. Gentle physical and energetic care keeps the surface smooth and reassuring to hold.
Charging Your Apache Tears
Anchor comfort and grounded protection in a simple, heartfelt ritual.
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Create a soft space
Gather a blanket, warm drink or favourite music and sit somewhere you feel safe.
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Name what you are carrying
Quietly acknowledge the feelings, memories or worries that feel heaviest right now.
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Hold the stone
Hold Apache Tears in your hands and imagine some of that weight flowing down into the earth beneath you.
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Choose one act of kindness
Decide on one small, kind action you will take for yourself after the ritual and treat it as part of your healing practice.
Pro Tip:Keep Apache Tears somewhere you can reach easily on harder days so you are reminded to pause, breathe and offer yourself the same compassion you would a dear friend.
Daily Practice
Incorporating Apache Tears into your life
How to work with this crystal
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Apache Tears are rounded nodules of dark volcanic glass related to obsidian, usually appearing in deep brown to black tones that turn translucent at the edges in strong light.
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With a Mohs hardness around 5 to 5.5, they are relatively durable but still prone to surface scratches if worn roughly.
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In modern crystal work, Apache Tears are often associated with gentle grief support, soft emotional release and a steady, protective energy that helps people move through tender chapters at their own pace.
Care & Handling ›
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Keep each piece in its own soft pouch or box compartment so chains and stones do not rub or tangle.
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Avoid keeping jewelry in bathrooms or other humid spots; store in a dry, cool place away from direct heat.
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After each wear, gently wipe jewelry with a soft, dry cloth before putting it back into storage.
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Take jewelry off for sports, workouts, heavy lifting and housework to avoid dents, chips and deformation.
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Do not leave jewelry in hot cars, near windows or heaters for long periods; store in a cool, shaded place.
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For water-safe jewelry, soak briefly in lukewarm water with mild soap, brush softly, then rinse and dry thoroughly.
Journal Prompts
Simple questions to explore while working with Apache Tears.
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What loss, change or ending is my heart still slowly integrating right now? Which small practices or people help me feel genuinely supported when emotions rise? Where can I allow myself to be more honest about how I am really feeling? What would gentle, sustainable healing look like for me over the next few months?
Affirmations
Short phrases to repeat while you wear or hold Apache Tears.
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My feelings are welcome, even when they arrive in waves. I am held and supported as I move through this chapter. It is safe for me to release what I no longer need to carry alone. I stay grounded in my body while my heart gently begins to soften and heal.
Companion Crystals
Other stones that pair well with Apache Tears in grids or stacks.
Gentle Reminders
A few important notes to keep Apache Tears work grounded and gentle.
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Crystals are a supportive ritual, not a substitute for professional medical or mental health care. Always listen to your own boundaries and work with gemstones as gentle reminders rather than promises of specific results.
FAQs about Apache Tears
Short answers to common questions about this crystal.
Is apache tears suitable for everyday wear? ›
With a hardness around 5.5 on the Mohs scale, apache tears is generally suitable for everyday pendants and earrings.
Rings can also be worn regularly as long as you avoid hard knocks, abrasive surfaces and heavy manual work.
Taking your apache tears pieces off before workouts, cleaning or DIY projects will help keep them looking bright for longer.
Rings can also be worn regularly as long as you avoid hard knocks, abrasive surfaces and heavy manual work.
Taking your apache tears pieces off before workouts, cleaning or DIY projects will help keep them looking bright for longer.
Can apache tears go in water? ›
Brief contact with clean, lukewarm water is usually fine for apache tears.
Avoid long soaks in hot tubs, chlorinated pools or salt water, as they can dull the surface or affect settings over time.
After any quick rinse, dry the jewelry thoroughly with a soft cloth before storing or wearing it again.
Avoid long soaks in hot tubs, chlorinated pools or salt water, as they can dull the surface or affect settings over time.
After any quick rinse, dry the jewelry thoroughly with a soft cloth before storing or wearing it again.
Which zodiac signs is apache tears best for? ›
There isn't one single zodiac sign that 'owns' apache tears, and it can be used by people of any sign.
Many people choose it for themes like Grief Support & Comfort, Gentle Emotional Release and Grounded Protection & Safety.
If its look and story resonate with you, it's a good match regardless of your chart.
Many people choose it for themes like Grief Support & Comfort, Gentle Emotional Release and Grounded Protection & Safety.
If its look and story resonate with you, it's a good match regardless of your chart.
What intentions is apache tears most often used for? ›
People often choose apache tears to support Grief Support & Comfort, Gentle Emotional Release and Grounded Protection & Safety.
You can incorporate it into simple rituals like holding a stone while you set intentions, meditating with it nearby, or keeping it on your desk or bedside.
Treat it as a supportive symbol and reminder, not a guarantee of specific outcomes.
You can incorporate it into simple rituals like holding a stone while you set intentions, meditating with it nearby, or keeping it on your desk or bedside.
Treat it as a supportive symbol and reminder, not a guarantee of specific outcomes.
How do I cleanse and recharge apache tears? ›
Gentle methods work well for apache tears: smoke cleansing, breath, sound, or placing it on a piece of selenite for a few hours.
You can also set your intention silently while holding the stone, imagining any heavy energy rinsing away.
Avoid harsh chemical cleaners or very strong midday sunlight for long periods, as those can affect the colour or surface over time.
You can also set your intention silently while holding the stone, imagining any heavy energy rinsing away.
Avoid harsh chemical cleaners or very strong midday sunlight for long periods, as those can affect the colour or surface over time.